Are You Dating A Psycho Woman?

Getting into any relationship is hard enough, but when these 10 signs of your girlfriend’s a psycho begin to arise, it can be nerve wrecking.

1. She claims “No one’s ever understood her like you do” and “She has never felt this way with a man before” on the first date. That could be psycho behavior.

2. If she tells you “she loves you” early on, it can definitely prove to be worrisome. You should run like Forrest Gump. It is always important to express feelings in a relationship, but not too early into the game

3. Constant calling can be one of the first clues that your girlfriend is a psycho. If  your answering the phone more than a call center, this can be a sign she is being overly possessive. There is a big difference between calling to talk and calling to know where you are at all times.

4. If she tries to pick and choose who your friends are, such as animals, it is a definite sign leading to problems. Whether your friends are male or female, if she tries to cut you off from human friendships, there are definite problems.

5. Has your social networking site become her homepage? You may suddenly have a spike in page views after you started dating or tons of comments, this can definitely be a sign she is a psycho.

6. If she is constantly talking about exes she previously dated, it is a serious red flag. You may find out the exes had to get a Restraining Order, and move out of the same city. This can show she is the type to hold on too tight, and you don’t want to become one of many on the list.

7. A girlfriend that shares interests with you is always a plus, but having the exact same interests isn’t always the best. If she show’s up at all your favorite hangouts including a bachelor party and pretend it’s a coincidence, some psychos never change.

8. If your girlfriend is trying to move herself into your place early, this is a definite sign that she is psycho. This shows that she’s trying to encroach on your Man Cave, and every aspect of your life. This is absolutely unhealthy.

9. If her medicine cabinet  looks like a pharmacy containing bottles for depression and psycho problems, you don’t need to deal with that either. This problem can later extend to bigger issues.

10. If the Suicide Hotline is on her speed dial, BIG PROBLEM.

Female Body Language During Sex

 Women can be hard to read, especially when it comes to sex. If she is enjoying the sex, you will know about it on some level. If you’re not so sure and need some reassurance, check out her more subtle signs which is her sexual body language.  Her body will display some signs of arousal that she can’t fake, but remember every woman is different. I will say it again, every woman is different. So, yes, it can often be just as difficult to get nonverbal feedback on your performance when there are so many variables. Here are some general sexual body language signs that she’s getting exactly what she wants from you.  

Rapid Breathing - Our breath when resting is a very peaceful and tranquil movement of air in and out of our lungs. When a woman is turned on, however, this breath comes in urgent puffs and probably has some involuntary moans escape with it as the air is forced quickly past her vocal cords. The increase in heart rate when her body prepares for an orgasm means her internal organs and muscles are demanding more oxygen. If you can hear her breathing change, you’re on the right track or shes hyperventilating. If you can feel her heart thumping, you’re very well on your way. This is her sexual body language giving you signals that she’s aroused. However, if she’s breathing normally after having her orgasm, if she had one, perhaps she’s a faker.  

Body Movement - If your woman is curling her toes and writhing against you, chances are she’s probably enjoying herself. Grinding and pushing against you means that she’s really getting into it. If she’s lying there limp, like a piece of rope, then things probably aren’t happening for her. Try changing sexual positions, or stop entering her and warm her up from the beginning with your mouth and or hands and see how her sexual body language progresses from there.

Thrusting Hips - When she meets your thrusts, you’re doing something right. It’s pretty safe to say that if she’s matching your body movements and is in rhythm with you, then she’s getting something out of it. Great sex is often very synchronized, which is how our bodies are designed to produce orgasms. Repeated movements in the right spot build to a climaxing. You have to find the right spot. If she isn’t meeting your thrusts then her sexual body language may be telling you, she’s taking a nap. Change sexual positions and see how she responds.

Arms Out - If she’s holding herself close she may not be feeling like a wild animal. Her arms may be around you, her hands may be on your chest, above your head, wherever, except they’re being held in close to her own body. If she’s on top she may need her arms to maneuver herself and give herself some leverage to get the best angle. This is certainly not a definitive gesture, but can be useful. Her body should be responding to the situation. She shouldn’t be worried about covering herself up or where her arms are. If her arms are stretched wide, either held out to the side or splayed out on the bed sheets, you can bet her sexual body language is telling you you’re right where you need to be and she’s comfortable. Go BIG BOY.

Vaginal Muscle Movement - You have one of your most sensitive parts inside one of her most sensitive parts. With each movement inside of her you can feel the walls of her vagina, the muscles and flesh. The vaginal wall is an incredibly strong muscle and she will probably use this to some extent for her own pleasure during sex. You may also feel the contracting and relaxing during an orgasm. Her vagina spasms and this will clench you to some degree, but not always. Some women do have great control, and those who do are likely to have better sex and orgasms in general. If you don’t feel any clenching, don’t panic. You may know already by the feel of her vagina, her orgasm is on vacation. Pay careful attention to her sexual body language and what’s going on inside of her.

Love, Money or Sex?

It has been said that love makes the world go ’round. It has also been said that money is the root of all evil. But, when it comes to sex, “use it or lose it” seems to sum it up.

In this society, so many of us are caught up in the pursuit of all three – Love, Money and Sex - but not necessarily in that order.

A common statement is that men think about sex every seven seconds. A  major sex survey actually found that 54% of men think about sex every day or several times a day, 43% a few times a week, and 4 % actually think about sex less than once a month.

Have you heard the saying,  ”Sex sells”? Our society has been sold on sex. Some women are striving to appear as beautiful as the hottest models in magazines and as sexy and thin as the superstars of TV and movies… Here’s a tip. It happened with Plastic Surgery and it is a huge business.

An even larger business venture is internet pornography sites. Men are becoming so hooked on these photographic images and photoshop touchups that they are losing interest in the real women and real relationships in their personal lives… Men are DOGS.

Another common statement: “Women have sex to get love and men show love in order to get sex” … Did you see that one coming?

Many women have sex for all sorts of reasons that have very little to do with love. Women often have sex to obtain money, either directly (prostitution) or indirectly ( free dinners, free trips, freedom of working). And some women are quite aggressive sexually so that men do not have the same need to pursue them to obtain sex… Wait, back this train up. What went wrong?

Some men pursue women that appeal to them for more than outward sexual attractiveness. Every man’s interests and desires are different, unless they are thinking about sex. Some men value a woman’s intellect. Others are touched by her softness and sensitivity. And supposedly there are men who love an aggressive and outspoken woman… However, he must be a mama’s boy.

The sexual desire and sexual thoughts result from the woman’s personal qualities in addition to her outward appearance. Obviously, there are many men who pursue women just for sex, but for many men that lasts for a brief period of time before they actually fall in love.

Money also sells. Many of us are seeking money in the hopes of attaining a better life and fulfilling all of our dreams. As they say, “Money can’t buy love”, but  it certainly can pay for the first date.

Love seems to get the short end of the stick. Many of us say we want to love and be loved, with one unspoken stipulation. “As long as the other person remains sexy, offers us understanding, compassion, excitement, wisdom, support, financial security, and whatever else we think is important in our life – and never does anything to hurt us (cheating, addictive behaviors, business failure and loss of expected income, or emotional instability),” then we can love this person indefinitely.

Loving and being loved is not a fairytale. It is day to day, moment to moment, self-expression, sharing and communication. Not every partner communicates in the style and the words or as often as we might desire. Not every partner shares their innermost thoughts or their current activities. Not every partner knows how to love and be loved.

Do you know how to love and be loved? Have you ever even thought about a book on how to love and remain sexually active. Can you truly say you know how to love and be loved? Have you ever taken the time to learn about the obstacles and blocks you are personally creating to avoid intimacy? Love makes the world go ’round, but if you’re not careful, it will just keep going ’round and ’round, until you want to get off.”