Women can be hard to read, especially when it comes to sex. If she is enjoying the sex, you will know about it on some level. If you’re not so sure and need some reassurance, check out her more subtle signs which is her sexual body language. Her body will display some signs of arousal that she can’t fake, but remember every woman is different. I will say it again, every woman is different. So, yes, it can often be just as difficult to get nonverbal feedback on your performance when there are so many variables. Here are some general sexual body language signs that she’s getting exactly what she wants from you.
Rapid Breathing - Our breath when resting is a very peaceful and tranquil movement of air in and out of our lungs. When a woman is turned on, however, this breath comes in urgent puffs and probably has some involuntary moans escape with it as the air is forced quickly past her vocal cords. The increase in heart rate when her body prepares for an orgasm means her internal organs and muscles are demanding more oxygen. If you can hear her breathing change, you’re on the right track or shes hyperventilating. If you can feel her heart thumping, you’re very well on your way. This is her sexual body language giving you signals that she’s aroused. However, if she’s breathing normally after having her orgasm, if she had one, perhaps she’s a faker.
Body Movement - If your woman is curling her toes and writhing against you, chances are she’s probably enjoying herself. Grinding and pushing against you means that she’s really getting into it. If she’s lying there limp, like a piece of rope, then things probably aren’t happening for her. Try changing sexual positions, or stop entering her and warm her up from the beginning with your mouth and or hands and see how her sexual body language progresses from there.
Thrusting Hips - When she meets your thrusts, you’re doing something right. It’s pretty safe to say that if she’s matching your body movements and is in rhythm with you, then she’s getting something out of it. Great sex is often very synchronized, which is how our bodies are designed to produce orgasms. Repeated movements in the right spot build to a climaxing. You have to find the right spot. If she isn’t meeting your thrusts then her sexual body language may be telling you, she’s taking a nap. Change sexual positions and see how she responds.
Arms Out - If she’s holding herself close she may not be feeling like a wild animal. Her arms may be around you, her hands may be on your chest, above your head, wherever, except they’re being held in close to her own body. If she’s on top she may need her arms to maneuver herself and give herself some leverage to get the best angle. This is certainly not a definitive gesture, but can be useful. Her body should be responding to the situation. She shouldn’t be worried about covering herself up or where her arms are. If her arms are stretched wide, either held out to the side or splayed out on the bed sheets, you can bet her sexual body language is telling you you’re right where you need to be and she’s comfortable. Go BIG BOY.
Vaginal Muscle Movement - You have one of your most sensitive parts inside one of her most sensitive parts. With each movement inside of her you can feel the walls of her vagina, the muscles and flesh. The vaginal wall is an incredibly strong muscle and she will probably use this to some extent for her own pleasure during sex. You may also feel the contracting and relaxing during an orgasm. Her vagina spasms and this will clench you to some degree, but not always. Some women do have great control, and those who do are likely to have better sex and orgasms in general. If you don’t feel any clenching, don’t panic. You may know already by the feel of her vagina, her orgasm is on vacation. Pay careful attention to her sexual body language and what’s going on inside of her.
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